A great challenge to approaching ladies
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Khaleefa Jan 15, 11:34 AM

A great challenge to approaching ladies 0

I'm gonna speak for myself, I've got this challenge in approaching ladies. Like, a few weeks back I met this pretty cute lady at a bodega. And I found her really adorable. I wanted to get her contact but while trying to approach her I had second thoughts. I was like... "I don't think a lady this beautiful and classy is single" "She's most likely taken" "What if she snubs or she's rude" This has happened to me a couple of times and I dunno if I'm the only one experiencing this. Its a big challenge for me.
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Jibril saeed Jan 15, 12:08 PM
na only you ohh
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Sgabdo Jan 15, 12:45 PM
Bro You Won't Know Until You Try...Don't Think It will be successful, Think She will Reject You And You Will Go Gist Your Friends About It. In Fact Think You Have Already Been Rejected. This Way It Wont Be Unexpected For You .and It will be Norms For You to Approach.
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Muhammad najib Jan 15, 12:48 PM
not only you sometimes I do think of that
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Anonymous #1 Jan 15, 12:51 PM
Dear men that always feel like this you never know until you shoot your shot! btwn we fine girls are single bcos y'all think like him,bcos she looks beautiful and gorgeously dressed doesn't mean she's taken ...we are usually not taken wooooo , sometimes we look unapproachable,pls approach us,we don't biteeee
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Haidar Ali Jan 15, 01:22 PM
You're not the only one o. A lot of girls are victims of this as some guys tend to think they're taken, or beyond them or could be rude. For one to think a lady is beyond him or could be rude, that I can understand. He may have observed her for a while and saw some signs that could translate to these two. But for being taken, there's no way one could tell unless one approaches politely and enquire. And if you're lucky she isn't taken, you sail away with her 🤗 But if I catch you talking to my babe, omoh! me and you go enter ring o 😄😄
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Anonymous #6 Jan 15, 03:33 PM
Well you won't know whether she's single or taken until you talk to her. man up and have courage
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Anonymous #1 Jan 15, 03:39 PM

A toh
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Haidar Ali Jan 15, 04:53 PM

No be small 😅
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Anonymous #3 Jan 15, 05:34 PM
any time you see a like u like approach her , it’s neither a YES OR NO . and none of them kills .. so next make sure u approach us.. person like myself men think same away too, but I’m single and searching seriously
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Fatima Muhammad husain Jan 15, 09:10 PM
khaleefa how do we get in touch pls
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Khaleefa Jan 15, 11:23 PM

You can always contact me on WhatsApp via
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Anonymous #7 Jan 16, 02:19 PM
just approach them with courage and good intentions
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Anonymous #5 Jan 16, 04:01 PM

wlhi majority of us those beautiful ladies 😉are single,bcz many men are afraid to face us just bcz of that beauty,not knowing that if to everyone is like you then who will date us🤔
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Fi Jan 16, 05:23 PM
You should try and summon the courage to talk to women because it's actually the most beautiful women that are single.
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Saadatu Ibrahim Jan 17, 06:39 AM
pray and stop thinking otherwise
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Anonymous #4 Jan 17, 07:18 AM

we should try ?😁
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Anonymous #5 Jan 17, 09:46 AM

may Allah guide us
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Khaleefa Jan 17, 06:17 PM

Ameen
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