Are the Arewa Matchmakers really Serious

Hello All. This is a question am asking honestly the arewa Members if truly what some are aspiring in partners is honest, cultural and possible. Firstly let me start with Men. You see a description of a desired partners as if She should just be created for him. Tall, slim, Educated, humble, religious, bla blu bla as if all his sisters, nieces and cousins are like tha. However, though for the ladies, it's not bad wishing everything good, many don't know how to manage relationships. You behave as if you are doing the man favor. you want so much and still do shekara just aspiring yet jettisoned. I have experience with a lady that all the 3 days we met, it was a request from eating outside,to having birthday by the corner and to or buy this for me. it's not our culture a lady having so much request ba Kunya. This made me to think of Truly members are serious !!!