Rant about Abuja/Lagos men
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Anonymous Mar 17, 04:26 PM

Rant about Abuja/Lagos men 0

I don't want to generalise but its seems all these rumours about Abuja men seems to be true. Majority of them feels nothing bad about zina, it's like a normal thing to them. If you refuse to indulge them, the next thing is to start making you feel inadequate, like "ke baki waye ba". The situation is even worst when you are divorced and living alone. Lagos men on other is a discussion for another day. Those ones will call themselves Ustaz, once you start getting used to them and think you have gotten "your missing rib", the next thing is coming to visit but this people will insist on staying in your house during their visit. Like its a normal thing for them. So far, I have had experience from 3 Lagos men back to back. The 3rd one happened recently, I have to tell him my dowry has been paid and walimatu nikkah is after Ramadan. I am thinking of staying of relationship for now, maybe in future.
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Anonymous #1 Mar 17, 04:29 PM
Wlh I also had an encounter with one Lagos guy like he wasn’t even ashamed
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Anonymous #2 Mar 17, 06:10 PM
I have never been to Lagos so I don't know anything about Lagos guys but Abuja guys kawai Allah ya shiryar da su(Ameen).
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Sarath lawal Mar 17, 07:27 PM
Allah ya shirya su
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Tijjani Muhammad Mar 17, 07:41 PM

lol amen
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Bilkisu Ismail Mar 17, 09:27 PM
Allah ya shirye mu gaba Daya🙏....but obviously not just Abuja and Lagos men Kam, because what I have come to know and understand is that most men are like that and I wonder why it's so hard to see a true one with good intentions... been a woman is really challenging 😒
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Naziru Yakubu Badarawa Mar 17, 09:32 PM
may Allah continue to guide nd protect us 🤲
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Tijjani Muhammad Mar 17, 10:07 PM
stay in or out isn't the solution just seek Allah guide and to connect you with the right partner. don't give up on yourself.
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Anonymous #3 Mar 17, 11:22 PM
I for don post first Ramadan with Habibi but Abuja men no let me 😢💔💔 cause their negativity expectations in the relationship is high
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Reina Mar 18, 10:33 PM
i can also testify that , i met this guy 2nd 2021 November and we started dating March 2022 so he decided to visit me in my state and the next thing he asked me was s** and i refused he was like hes cool with that but to cut the story short we broke up not up 2 months after😒😒 not until now that hes back he wants me sincerely but unfortunately hes too late ive moved on already
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Hawwa01 Mar 18, 10:44 PM
Abuja men! Abuja men! the only thing they know is to f**k around. Allah ye shirye su you can hardly find a good one among them.
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Anonymous #4 Mar 19, 11:41 AM
wannan reputation wannan reputation 😅
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