Is Virginity a Big Deal???
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Anonymous Jul 12, 02:44 AM

Is Virginity a Big Deal??? 4

Virginity is overrated, The best gift for every man is to marry a woman with an attitude, virginity doesn’t sustain marriage. Attitude is what keeps, grows and sustains the marriage NOT her virginity. Virginity is a woman’s reputation for herself in d sight of her Lord nd d world. It is never a gift to man,not about a man. Some men marry divorceès their first time, if virginity was a big deal, they wouldn’t have. Attitude is d gift to Man?, even prefer divorcees self.
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Nasz Jul 12, 07:31 AM
Me too i used to wonder if virginity matters in marriages or relationships,but sometimes it depends on the lady shaaa,if she's the type that behave like a she goat,jumping from one man's bed to the other,then it matters seriously...!!
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Ismail Muhammad Dangana Jul 12, 12:31 PM

It seems u are not talking base on islamic thought cox veginity in islam is a very big deal if not bcox nowadays we dont care?
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Bng Jul 12, 12:46 PM
Well it depends if you are askin coz you are a woman, and perhaps you want to loose it then please its a big deal, 😂 if you are a woman pls by all means try to protect it, its ur chasity and part of your dignity and islamically it’s freaking haram to loose it. However if you lost it unwillingly, due to mishaps or destiny then its excusable. May Allah guide us Amin
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Phartymerh Jul 12, 09:51 PM
i think virginity is a small deal to a man and a big deal to a woman.
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Ahmad lamin Jul 14, 02:19 PM
Lust and Fornication Are Sins, Risk of Pregnancy, Virginity is a Precious Gift to Bring to Your Spouse,
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MARYAM MANSUR Jul 14, 04:40 PM
Dear poster it depends from d perspective u r looking at it, if its from d point of fornication I will tell it 100% matters but from d point of Man marrying divorcee or widow it doesn't matter coz our prophet S.A.W have done dat b4.
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Hindat Jul 14, 05:49 PM
This is a very good topic which calls for attention. Yes virginity is a priceless gift you give to your husband and also a pride of womanhood but it shouldn't be a basis for marriage. Many women loose their virginity not because they indulge in sinful act but due to several reasons like lifting of heavy things,riding,some naturally have a very thin hymen which worn out with time due to monthly flow, etc. Attitude matters alot my brothers in Islam go for a pious and religious woman who will complete half of your deen, who will be submissive and who can guide your children to the right path.
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Sa'ada Jul 14, 07:48 PM
Please virginity is a big deal ooo every woman is expected to try as much as possible to protect her chastity keh not only females harda mazan It's very very important for mata yana kara musu martaba da daraja a idon mazajensu but if a woman losses it by accident then that's probably inevitable so please keep your virginity intact!!!! It's like I heard duk wanda yayi protecting kansa daga zina har yayi aure is promised jannah but I'll ask again n will edit this comment In Shaa ALLAH
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Nasz Jul 14, 09:14 PM

I only said that to hear people's opinions,but truth is i will only go for a virgin,sometimes we have to beat around the bush in other to hear people's opinions
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