Title:	I have disobeyed my father
Content:	My father's behaviour is harmful to my mental and emotional well-being. I am a widow aged 34,he doesn't allow me make my own choices. Career wise😭 nasamu admission a KASU sau biyu after finishing secondary. He never allowed me go because,medicine was what he wanted 4 years went just like that.I later found out he wanted me to study medicine so he can brag to his family members.I obeyed him and got admitted into the university to study medicine , amma dayake ba rabo an issue came up and i changed my course. He is constantly monitoring and interfering in his my decisions and activities. Like my phone calls with my suitors, banda ikon waya da sauri😭. He sits and watches me through CCTV in his room idan ina zance a tsakar gida.He is never happy if been approached da maganar aurena. My father gets happy any time my relationship fails. In anzo maganar neman aurena he doesn't even give listening ears. He says to me insamu aiki kawai shine damuwarsa. He told my mother cewa nina taba aure basai nayi aure ba kawai insamu aiki kawai. Yahanani neman aiki , nasamu aiki har guda biyu nayi aiki dasu yace nabari aikin nadawo gida zai dunga bani albashi duk wata. Idan zai bada kudin yayi gori yana cewa ba aikin danake nakarbi kudi. I have never disobeyed him, with all these i believe he is doing it to protect me. Bayada buri wadda yawuce nayi aiki uniform( force).I was recently invited for a job interview in Abuja, i seek his permission and he approved for my trip. Bayan nadawo sai yacemun wai ina abunda nagadama acikin gida naje abuja yawo😭😭i cried my eyes because wallahi rabona da wani da namiji tun mijina yana raye. Mamana saitayi ta bani hakuri tacemin komi lokaci ne inyi biyayya. My problem now he monitors and interferes in my activities and decisions sabida ina gida agabansa, he told me cewa dazarar kinsamu aikin (uniform) din danake miki pursing kinsamu freedom😭. I don't have freedom to have suitors or move freely saidai na zauna agida bana zuwa ko ina?Sannan banason aikin uniform din dayakeso yakaini i have tried talking to him to get something related to my field. Amma yaki😥 infact he has threatened not to get the job, yace nafita nabar mishi gida, inbiyashi kudinsa. Narasa meke mindadi
Category:	Secrets	Jun 20, 03:51 PM

Title:	Are saint guys still available please???
Content:	I am depressed 😔 am i the only one with this experience??niba uztaziya bace amma ina kokarin tsare mutuncina. Allah ya jarabceni da haduwa da maza masu son tabe taben jiki ,nikuma bani iyawa💔 6 guys have left me now.The last one left me yesterday 😭.Ansaka mana rana dashi yazo daga lagos wajena kano. sai ya sauka a ( lodge). He came to greet my parents yaganni ya koma lodge. yana komawa sai yace mani inzo lodge nasameshi ba abunda zai shiga tsaninmu. i refused yayi yayi daga baya yacemin inhar banzo ba yahakura dani har abada nikuma nace mishi nayadda banzanzo ba.
Category:	Advice	Jun 21, 04:17 PM

Title:	ADAINA KYAMAR ZAWARAWA MUMA MUTANENE
Content:	I'm a divorcee ,bantaba haihuwa ba. Though I had a miscarriage before we got separated with my ex husband.i haven't been into any relationship since my divorce.All I did was focused on my career.I met this man through a dating app, all was going well.Thinking I found the right one,not until he told me that he loves me but inyatuna cewa kwanciyar aure yashiga tsakanina da tsohon mijina sai yaji kyama that bayason yarunga mun wani kallo.And bayason ya tuna haka shi kallon dayakemun yanzu irin kallon wacce bata taba auren nan ne ba. I felt bad and told him does he really love.At some point banga laifinsa ba saboda bakowani namiji nada nashi muradin.Saina mishi uzuri nakuma nuna mishi shi aure ba'a yinsa idan zukata basu aminta da juna ba.Inzai aureni Yana kyamata to gara yasamu wacce bata tabayin auren ba.Ni zan iya hakura. Na tunatar dashi tunda na rabu da mijina kusan 4 years hannuna babu namijin daya balle haryakaiga anyi sexs dani. Narike mutuncina Kuma ko mutuwar aurena kaddara ce.As time goes on dai,things didn't go on well and we broke up. Nayi addua Allah yasa hakan shine Mafi alheri. Then I met the last one whom was a family friend.we fell in love, inyazo zance cikin parlor muke hira.Bamu taba fita tare badai. Last last he asked to sleep with me and told me he's not ready for marriage.wai yaga ni bazawara ce, zawarawa sunfi dadin sha'ani.I am in pains wallahi I want to fall in love and get married again and have my own kids.Amma nayi Imani Allah zai dubeni. Meyasa divorcees ba'a daukarmu mutanen kirki?? Akwai nagari dayawa agari.
Category:	Advice	Mar 19, 03:22 PM