so there is this girl (22yrs) that I was on a talking stage with this year, we later started dating and I even got to see her dad like 2 months ago for proper introduction. she has a jr sis that is 17yrs, currently in SS2. Her sister currently started dating a guy like 2 months ago. the guy is married (has 1 wife) and reside in their area. The guy said he wants to marry this girl within 6 months and wouldn't mind her writing her WAEC in his house . the problem is, now may gf is putting pressure on me to quickly send my parents, I feel she doesn't want her Jnr sis to get married before her, she is not even asking me on the plans. I wouldn't mind putting some of my plans on hold to plan the wedding in one year, but the fact that I'm doing all this becoz someone came with a firebrigade approach, it's making me reconsider. what's y'all take on this issue
just send your parents to meet hers, then do the engagement later
yh
Are you psychologically, mentally and emotionally ready for this?
Ask yourself don't be blinded by love or any pressure, talk to her as your eternal partner not as who wants what she wants.....what do you want?
I checked ur profile, u've been a regular poster, but u stopped. what happened?
yeah!, actually I stopped using the app for a while, but am back now😊, thanks for the care
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