Re: What physical characteristics do you seek for in a spouse?
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Mbmustapha Feb 4, 10:44 PM

Re: What physical characteristics do you seek for in a spouse? 1

Assalaamu alaykum wa rahmatullaahi. First of all, thank you for that question sister. And thank you for being vocal about the subject. I'm a guy by the way. Second of all, yes, after good character, financial stability and tsoron Allah, I hate the fact that most ladies and unfortunately some guys even, judge us because we are vocal about our physical qualities or preferences in a lady, when after all, everyone amongst us has got it. Despite the fact that we men are overwhelmingly visual creatures, idan muka kasance vocal about it, se a fara judging din ka ana maka kallon ko "dan iska" ko "mara mutunci" ko "womanizer" ko "playboy" ko wanda baze kasance me leash ba idan yayi aure, and anything and everything in between. Bayan kuma kowa yana da abinda yake burge shi pertaining physical na partner. That's sheer "hypocrisy" as someone mentioned in the original post. Thank you first commenter for outrightly mentioning yours is/are "boobs and a curvy shape". Ni ma haka, coupled with chubby and plumpy figure. And anyone that accuses me of probable infidelity or unfaithfulness, well, can ta matse maka/miki. You won't make me stop admiring and being vocal to who I find physically appealing. Peace ✌🏽 🕊️
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Anonymous #4 Feb 5, 12:08 AM
hmmmmmmm......
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Zahra Haladu Feb 5, 05:19 AM
Ok
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Anonymous #1 Feb 5, 05:34 AM
shikenan brother, you have said it all 🤝😁 why won't you be attracted to a ladies body as a guy? are you gay ? as a lady if your guy is not attracted to you body then hmmm 😂😂
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Mbmustapha Feb 5, 05:49 AM

Wallaahi fa. One funny and annoying thing is, all of them ladies that send their crushes on social media platforms on forums or groups to be posted, majority na the looks coupled with the success they feel the guy has achieved wey draw them wallahi. Na tabbata ba jin sa suka yi yana karatun Qur'ani ko Hadithi bah.
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Ahjummaah Feb 5, 05:55 AM
hakane gaskiya kowa da abunda yake burgeshi ai shiyasa annabinmu yace ku auri mai addini sbd shi ilimi shine jigon rayuwa ai ba laifi bane Idan mutum yabi physical attraction na partner but addini yazama priority naka shine kawai if mutum is lucky enough kuma ka gyara intention Dinka sai Allah ya hada duka 😊 mai addini da irin figure din da kakeso ai lahiya lay ne ko🤣 ba abunda yafi karfin Allah
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Mbmustapha Feb 5, 06:04 AM

That's what I mentioned in some post about my preferences a couple of weeks ago but still got criticized. Hali, tarbiya and addini are priority number 1 of course. Because koh kin tara physical qualities din da suke I find appealing, you're more or less "fanko" to me. So as you said, full option it is and no less.
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Rukaiya Muhammad Feb 5, 06:12 AM
hahahhahahah kai Mbmustapha walh badaka dama.agaskiya danaga comments din wasu akan post din was like to Alhmdulh our northern MEN and LADIES munfara opening up which I think is very neccessary. you see saying fact about what you think is the best walh ba mugun abu bane aftral you were ask and you open up your mind.kowane bawa nada wishes and desires nasa ko a spouse,ko a lifestyle komadai a meyna madai.kuma let's believe it or not walh duk namiji dana qualities dayakeso a mace tunda aftral shizai ajiyeta koda mumata munada amma bekai nasu ba and most of them is hips,boobs,slim ok chubby da dai sauransu.so Maza bakuda laipi walh kuma ba haramun bane.kokunsan cewa akwai wani sahabi dayafadawa Annabin Rahama cewa akwai matar dayakeso yar madina amma betaba ganintaba sai Annabi ya ce yaje ya ganta tooh muduba fa matan madina da Allah beragesu dakomaiba amma Annabin Allah yanace masa akan yadai je yaganta saboda mey?ya tabbatar irin wacce yakesoce.so ba haramun bane fa.
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Rukaiya Muhammad Feb 5, 06:15 AM

wai wai waiiiii.....amma walh wannan maganar taka gaskiyace sosai.basu kam gansa yana jan qira'a da tajweedi mey dadin gaskeba amma saidan wasu dalilan.ya Allah kasa mudace.
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Anonymous #2 Feb 5, 07:38 AM
Allah sarki mu da muke en siri siri Allah yasa dai mu auru🥺😅
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Maryam Yaqub Feb 5, 08:28 AM
🙌🙌
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Anonymous #1 Feb 5, 09:15 AM

like rukaiya said kowa da spec din da yakeso akwai wanda inba irinku ba sai rijiya just like mbmustapha shi kingan he likes dem chubby
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Rukaiya Muhammad Feb 5, 09:43 AM

hahahaha hmmm yar uwa no woman is born ugly indai idon namijine haka Allah ya yimu da kima da wannan baiwar.just dai kowa da choice nasa.inkinga namiji yazo maki to irinki yakeso kuma harga Allah,inkuma chubby ce itama hakane. so no any inbalance wajen specifying choice.any how any how akwai admirers
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Anonymous #6 Feb 5, 11:52 AM

Ni kuma komai siririn mace if she is busty to wallahi angama kinsan kowa da nashi, physical likes din
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Mimie Feb 5, 12:51 PM
Masha Allah ashe dai ana son Chubby innan 🥺
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Zash Feb 5, 03:15 PM
omo 😂🤦🏽‍♀️
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Anonymous #3 Feb 6, 05:41 PM
@ mb Mustapha, I like me a guy that’s vocal and straightforward. I almost shoot my shot but am far from your spec, please keep being outspoken especially for what will cheat you, make you unhappy or cause you harm☺️
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Dr A A Feb 6, 09:28 PM
so the table is for us today🌚
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Islam Feb 8, 02:17 AM

U have started again
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Islam Feb 8, 02:19 AM
Ashe dai chubby girls nada fans😁
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Mbmustapha Feb 8, 05:17 AM

Yes ☺️
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Alma Feb 8, 11:20 AM

that'll will be great, drop your IG handle please
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Alma Feb 8, 11:34 AM
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taken, you can delete it
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Mbmustapha Feb 8, 11:34 AM

Yes ma'am
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Dr A A Feb 9, 09:59 PM

no maan
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