Have you ever let someone go because they deserve better?
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Anonymous May 11, 02:08 PM

Have you ever let someone go because they deserve better? 0

Have you ever been with someone who loves you with all her heart and will literally do anything for you, someone who doesn't want to see you hurt, someone who is possessive of you, someone who can sacrifice all she has just to see you smile ? You love her as much but you can't reciprocate the feelings,the efforts? You get so beat up by your daily struggle that you forget something she tells you just 5 minutes ago, you want to treat her like a queen but you are married to your job and its starting to turn into choosing the job or choosing her , you want to hang out with her but you are always at work,you want remember her birthday, anniversary, important things but you can't seem to do that no matter how much you try to ,not because you don't care but because you are drowning in your life problems. You keep on disappointing her , hurting her ,she's always understanding but now it has reach the point where her frustrations is starting to show . You feel it in you,you can't give her what she deserves,what she's asking for, you know she's worth every bit of it and more but you have to let her go ,you need to let her go , you can't keep on hurting her and claiming to love her . I lost a gem last week , I had to take the cowardly way out because I couldn't give her what she's expecting of me , I know I can never find someone like her . 😔🥀
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Anonymous #1 May 11, 02:40 PM
since you're working why don't you marry her? I honestly don't think you love her
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Anonymous #2 May 11, 02:42 PM
Why do this have to happen? we also go through a lot but we still stand by you and love you as we grow why can’t you just give a little effort. I get how you guys don’t want to hurt us and we deserve better and you don’t want to be toxic for us but it’s worth a try right?
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Anonymous May 11, 03:24 PM

Yeah it's easy to assume so . With her the issue is complicated. 'She' can't get married yet for a personal reason which I'm well aware of .
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Anonymous May 11, 03:28 PM

There's a point you reach try after try that you admit this is the best I can give . Not because you don't love her but you have to sacrifice something for it ,and for me that means sacrificing my job .
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Anonymous #3 May 11, 04:35 PM
just calm down and process, you can get even better
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Maryam Muhammad33 May 11, 04:51 PM
Hmmmm
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MuhammadS May 11, 05:10 PM
you truly lost a gem bro. wish I could pick it.. 😅
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Anonymous May 11, 05:20 PM

Too late . It's over
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Anonymous May 11, 05:21 PM

There are a lot of gems out there
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MuhammadS May 11, 05:52 PM

there are
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Anon Lady May 11, 07:32 PM
but we re humans,we all deserve a second chance ko ba haka ba?....since you know ur mistakes,u learnt from them and made necessary corrections. I think it x not late to ask her for another chance
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Anonymous #4 May 11, 08:00 PM
you’re just not that into her .. when you truly fall in love you’ll make sacrifices and compromises. she sounds like a burden to you . it’s better that you let her go so she can find someone that will treat her right
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Anonymous May 11, 09:50 PM

I strongly disagree with your first line. Lately we're having a lot of fight due to my commitment to work , she knows all about my work . she's indirectly asking me to choose my work or her .As much as I love her ,I can't quit my job for love .This is not Bollywood
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Anonymous #5 May 11, 09:56 PM
u only fells that u love her,but sincerely u dnt luv her that much... if u love her that much u will nvr forget something abt her,or u will nvr lack a moment for her!!! it's normal to fells lyk u luv someone but deeply inside u dnt,this is wats happening to u... so,it's better to let her go nd pray for her to get a perfect person who will luvs her wholeheartedly.
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Anonymous #7 May 12, 08:06 AM
Next time when falling inlove makesure both of you have mutual understanding Mr agogo
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Anonymous #8 May 18, 04:59 PM
I think many of you here are not being fair to this guy, I mean he understood that she needs someone better and made the sacrifice of letting her go, not because he doesn't love her but because he knows loving her will only bring her pain. sometimes the best way to love someone is by letting them go. some that are saying he should have married her, that would have been the most toxic of it. guys especially tend to try harder when in courtship than after marriage so just imagine, he already understood that his work is demanding and even at courtship he couldn't meet up so think about what happens after marry. my advice to you dear poster is perhaps look for someone that her life collaborates with yours (like medical doctor perhaps) . InshaAllah you won't regret this decision of letting her go.Allah ya hada kowa da rabansa. Ameen ya Rabb
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