Jun 20, 05:15 PM

i think I'm too perfect for relationship

assalamu alaikum I'm a young lady who is so full of life since my day one I grew up hearing my story as a jovial little girl that everybody loves toh yanzu I'm grown up alhamdulillah I'm a kind of lady who wishes to have a man that will give her that love and attention a man with the intention of marriage. like I have so many ways to Express love to someone I always learn about that but I haven't gotten the right man I feel like I'm in a wrong generation I'm a girl who loves a lovey dovey man cuz I'm a lovey dovey person but I haven't met the right man to Express those. I've been in a relationship where the man tells me I'm too good for him and I deserved better it happened to me more than twice and they tell me that same statement of"i deserve better" SO WHEN WILL I MEET THE BETTER PERSON " the society has made me hide my real self although I'm a happy person regardless I'm supposed to enjoy baby girl treatment 😭 not that men like that don't exist they do but I just see them doing that to other women and I feel those women are lucky to have the life I wish to have(not that I'm jealous of them ) I'm even happy for those ladies. my kind heart and loving heart is fading away due to meeting wrong men πŸ˜” sometimes I feel like I'm under a spell or something (asiri) because whoever I met as a man tells me how wonderful I am and we never really breakup due to fight issue we just split because they think I deserve better 🀧 or they just ghost

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Jun 20, 05:22 PM
just to add up my friend told me I'm too good and men deserve someone who is quite rude that's the only way they can be faithful is that true?
Jun 20, 06:11 PM
please never think you are under the spell. have faith in Allah and yourself the right person will come. I dont know your age I believe you are still young
Jun 20, 06:39 PM
Terjay Jun 20, 06:11 PM

please never think you are under the spell. have faith in Allah and yourself the right person will come. I dont know your age I believe you are still young

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thank you I'm 25yrs
Jun 20, 06:57 PM
Anonymous Jun 20, 06:39 PM

thank you I'm 25yrs

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wow I understand your concern now. Insha Allah nagari zaizo so that by next year muzo biki. Just keep praying and give other people a chance as well
Jun 20, 11:00 PM
Don’t worry the right man will come just keep praying and put ur trust in Allah he’s the best planner
Jun 21, 12:02 AM
Any update from you?
Jun 21, 12:05 AM
I actually thought it's an old pos written years ago, lol
Jun 21, 12:09 AM
May be telling you, you are too good for them is just a polite way of saying there's something you're doing that's not okay. So just ponder more and if possible ask them not with the intention of going back to the relationship to clearly tell you what actually made them to leave you
Jun 21, 06:06 AM
Anonymous Jun 20, 05:22 PM

just to add up my friend told me I'm too good and men deserve someone who is quite rude that's the only way they can be faithful is that true?

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not true gaskiya
Jun 21, 06:07 AM
Allah sarki…irin macen da nake so kenan
Jun 21, 02:36 PM
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Omg, that's very sad Do you need someone to talk to? If yes ,then ,can I have your email?
Jun 21, 02:47 PM
Anonymous #2 Jun 21, 06:07 AM

Allah sarki…irin macen da nake so kenan

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nasu irin character din ana dayawa,Allah yasa mu dace
Jun 21, 03:01 PM
Safiyya Jun 20, 11:00 PM

Don’t worry the right man will come just keep praying and put ur trust in Allah he’s the best planner

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thank you sister
Jun 21, 03:02 PM
Anonymous #1 Jun 21, 12:02 AM

Any update from you?

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update in what sense pls
Jun 21, 03:04 PM
Anonymous #2 Jun 21, 06:07 AM

Allah sarki…irin macen da nake so kenan

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thank you 😊
Jun 21, 03:04 PM
Anonymous #1 Jun 21, 12:09 AM
May be telling you, you are too good for them is just a polite way of saying there's something you're doing that's not okay. So just ponder more and if possible ask them not with the intention of goi[...] May be telling you, you are too good for them is just a polite way of saying there's something you're doing that's not okay. So just ponder more and if possible ask them not with the intention of going back to the relationship to clearly tell you what actually made them to leave you
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does that mean I have a problem and they are not telling me? I thought communication is the key? I feel terrible, if there's anything terrible I'm doing they should be able to tell me ai but anyways Allah knows best
Jun 21, 03:06 PM
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so sorry about that I would have wished for us to know each other better but someone asked for that first 😊 Allah ya baka ta gari irin ka
Jun 21, 03:17 PM
Anonymous Jun 21, 03:06 PM

so sorry about that I would have wished for us to know each other better but someone asked for that first 😊 Allah ya baka ta gari irin ka

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Ameen y Allah πŸ™
Jun 21, 04:00 PM
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may thats your kaddara, and you see in this life everything happens for a reason , keep on praying Allah knows best and he will see you through insha, if you need anyone to talk too I am here ok
Jun 21, 08:31 PM
gaskiya zan so in same ki πŸ₯ΊπŸ₯Ί
Jun 21, 08:47 PM
Anonymous #2 Jun 21, 08:31 PM

gaskiya zan so in same ki πŸ₯ΊπŸ₯Ί

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emotional already 😊? sorry
Jun 21, 09:43 PM
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Jun 21, 09:51 PM
Anonymous #4 Jun 21, 08:47 PM

emotional already 😊? sorry

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Jun 21, 10:12 PM
Anonymous #2 Jun 21, 09:51 PM

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is it something you want to talk about?
Jun 21, 10:47 PM
Anonymous #4 Jun 21, 10:12 PM

is it something you want to talk about?

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you're the definition of what I'm looking for in a partner gaskiya. I'd love to get to know you better and see if we could be the lovey-dovey duo you're looking for
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